The Next Big Step

15 and a half years ago, she had absolutely no freedom. She was completely confined to the womb–barely able to move at all. Birth was a huge step forward as she was able to flail her arms and legs about as she wished. After this, there was a steady stream of increased independence during the first year or so:

  • She started turning over on her own
  • She began crawling
  • She took those first steps
  • She learned how to run

The rate of new freedoms slowed down significantly after this and became more subtle: She was able to spend the night at a friend’s house for the first time, she learned how to ride a bike, she learned how to make a simple meal for herself, etc. All small, but important, steps to growing up.

However, one of the biggest rites of passage and strides forward in freedom and independence took place today. Yes, the Older Daughter is now Idaho’s newest licensed driver. I have feelings ranging from happiness to sadness to worry to excitement. In the end, I realize that I have to let this happen even if it means my little girl just keeps growing up. It’s my job to provide her with the knowledge and tools to have the best chance at success (and safety). Beyond that, it’s in God’s hands.

I’m so proud of her.

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3 Responses to “The Next Big Step”

  1. Matt Says:

    Bryan, I’m sure she’s equally proud of having you as her dad, one that gave her the confidence, assurance and encouragement to make it possible.

  2. Jodi Says:

    Oh man that’s scary. My youngest will start driving next spring. All you can do is hope and pray they stay safe.

  3. nectarfizz Says:

    HOOORAY FOR DAUGHTERS! Tell her she rocks for me Bry!!


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